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Cos he got caught out by his girlfriend, that he was seeing me. she ended it. overdosed and is in hospital but is okay so he decided it wud be a good idea to try and commit suiside. i stopped him but im not gona be around 24/7 to check up on him! i am blaming myself. if he kills himself then thats it for me. 3 friends in a year and a half? 2 is bad enough. olly is my world

Well I can see why she ended it, most people would do. If he really felt that bad about her he wouldn't have strayed though. It can't be that bad for him to try and commit suicide, being dumped shouldn't do that. Maybe try to see if that's the only problem?

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Well I can see why she ended it, most people would do. If he really felt that bad about her he wouldn't have strayed though. It can't be that bad for him to try and commit suicide, being dumped shouldn't do that. Maybe try to see if that's the only problem?

He says thas the only problem and she is everything to him.

Both of them tried to commit suiside... :(

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He says thas the only problem and she is everything to him.

Both of them tried to commit suiside... :(

If she is everything to him then what's he doing with you? They both need their heads banging together if they both tried it just becuase she dumped him.

It's a selfish act to try to commit suicide, even though most people have probably thought about it even me a few times. But to split up and then both try it is just plain daft.

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If she is everything to him then what's he doing with you? They both need their heads banging together if they both tried it just becuase she dumped him.

It's a selfish act to try to commit suicide, even though most people have probably thought about it even me a few times. But to split up and then both try it is just plain daft.

i agree with Steph, if she means everything to him why is he with you! sounds like he wants to have his cake & eat it,

you love him & so does she is that how you want to carry on? you have to think long & hard about what you want to do, you may regret it now but it would be over & done with, otherwise in years to come you could still be in the same situation that has consumed your life & you will regret it even more.

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i agree with Steph, if she means everything to him why is he with you! sounds like he wants to have his cake & eat it,

you love him & so does she is that how you want to carry on? you have to think long & hard about what you want to do, you may regret it now but it would be over & done with, otherwise in years to come you could still be in the same situation that has consumed your life & you will regret it even more.

I have already ended it.. like a week ago

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Oh dear Danni that does sound like a really messy situation. It's obviously not that easy for you to sort it out but Olly really does need to sort his head out. It is horrible when someone you care about is feeling suicidal :(

What sucks is that it's monday tomorrow and I'm on my way back to London when I'd much rather be in Nottingham.

'Forget happiness I'm fine, I'll forget everything in time'

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What sucks is that it's monday tomorrow and I'm on my way back to London when I'd much rather be in Nottingham.

I'd rather be in Nottingham right now too tbh. Stress is doing my head in, what with college and managing my flat, it's just too much!

Nik B.

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I've just had to come back from Newbury because we're moving house again (the whole landlord thing i posted about before), but that's not what sucks. What sucks is that a very good friend tried to commit suicide just before i went down there 2 weeks ago.

Part of me resents my dad even more after this whole fucking thing over the last 6 months since we moved, it feels like i'm useless up here, and part of me feels so, so guilty and like a rubbish mate.

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Danni I guess he thinks he can keep stringing you along despite this new girlfriend. He is being extremely selfish and seems to enjoy messing people around. It's been said many times before but really, you would be so much better off without him in your life. It hurts, but there are times when you have to get somebody out of your life when they're only doing bad things to you, no matter how much you care about them. Best of luck, you deserve someone so much better than this who can be happy committing to one person.

'Forget happiness I'm fine, I'll forget everything in time'

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tell olly to get fucked. i don't know how it keeps happening danni, but you keep getting the wrong men. spend some time single going out with friends, but if you do need someone try looking for someone who is not suicidal and then maybe the depression wont spread and cause problems.

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What sucks?

Drama School sometimes feels like more stress than it's worth, time is going so fast, and we're so stupidly busy that it becomes very difficult to do what other uni students do, lounge around getting drunk!

Also, Scott Mills: The Musical feels like a lifetime ago! (apologies for being so inactive on here at the moment, as stressed before, life is more hectic than I would like at the mo)...

Oh well, rant over. I hope you're all well and happy. And Danni - you deserve someone committed and loving, just like you.

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It looks like I'll be single again from tomorrow. My Boyfriend called me earlier, saying he wanted to end it. But I've told him to sleep on it and talk to me properly tomorrow. I think thats the best thing to do right now tbh. I also don't want to be dumped over the phone.

Life sucks.

Nik B.

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It looks like I'll be single again from tomorrow. My Boyfriend called me earlier, saying he wanted to end it. But I've told him to sleep on it and talk to me properly tomorrow. I think thats the best thing to do right now tbh. I also don't want to be dumped over the phone.

Life sucks.

Awww no Nik :( it seems like everything is falling apart in your life again. *big hug* we're all here for you whenever you need to talk to someone or rant or whatever. I really hope you're ok and not feeling too alone there.

'Forget happiness I'm fine, I'll forget everything in time'

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Actually I've been wanting to burst out laughing for the last few hours. It's not a good sign. I'm loooosing it.

I'm guessing that's a kind of shock reaction. I know what you mean, when things seem to be going so wrong that it just seems funny. Are there other people in your life to help you through this? Do you think you'll stay on good terms with your boyfriend if you're not together any more?

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Danni I guess he thinks he can keep stringing you along despite this new girlfriend. He is being extremely selfish and seems to enjoy messing people around. It's been said many times before but really, you would be so much better off without him in your life. It hurts, but there are times when you have to get somebody out of your life when they're only doing bad things to you, no matter how much you care about them. Best of luck, you deserve someone so much better than this who can be happy committing to one person.
tell olly to get fucked. i don't know how it keeps happening danni, but you keep getting the wrong men. spend some time single going out with friends, but if you do need someone try looking for someone who is not suicidal and then maybe the depression wont spread and cause problems.

I thought today, right thats it, i officially hate him... but he found me and cathy in boston tea party and boom! The feelings returned... i even had fucking butterflies in my tummy. Its stupid! But then had to meet him girlfriend.

I have cried constantly... its actually hurting my face now!

I'm so depressed at the moment i am scared one more thing will tip me over the edge... i have already been self harming for the past 5 months... which coincidently is when me and olly started seeing each other... I was banging my head on the table in the pub just now after i got a text saying "Im so happy right now... im in bed with libby and i am so relaxed" WHY!!!!!! WHY TELL ME THAT!!!!

Oh it is hurting me so bad

Cathy is taking me out on thursday to try and tak emy mind off him but olly will be out. I met a really nice guy on saturday but olly dragged me away kissing me and so the guy told me to fuck off.

How am i supposed to meet someone new?

I have had enough, i have had enough, i have had enough!

Kitty <3

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awww i'm sorry to hear this has happened Danni :(

you should talk to someone about the self harming to help you to stop it, it will be hard but just don't read any texts or answer calls from him, just delete his number, if he continues to bother you it could be classed as harassment.

as for feelings, im sure the female members will be better & able to offer more advice than i could.

i really hope you can meet someone new so you can leave this all behind you,

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