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Awww Mike that is really shit. Best of luck finding a place to live. Have you considered renting a room in a shared house in Newbury? Do keep trying.

It's just sinking in that this is the end of August and my NUS card runs out and I won't be a student any more and I won't be going back to uni and I'm stuck here until I find a proper job and then I'll be stuck in one place and tied down to the need for money and it's real life and it's boring and tedious. All my friends are feeling similarly confused and lost.

'Forget happiness I'm fine, I'll forget everything in time'

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Olly went to a party and fell into the side of a shed, fell though and it collapsed on him... his nose is all glued and he is all cut up badly... He has concussion too...

My mums one word answer to it was: 'Karma'

My aunties word was 'Karma'

Ohh dear my family dont like him... im starting to hate the fact i love him... I am really worried about him and everyone is wondering why!

Kitty <3

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My dog has a lump on his leg, he was at the vets all day today getting a biopsy. :(

How is he? Is he any better?

What sucks at the moment is that potentially, the whole of my workplace could come down with swine flu. My mum's been at work all day and one of our workmates got a phonecall from his brother (his brother is in the Navy and is based down in Portsmouth) to say that he's coming back home up here tomorrow. Why? Because he has swine flu. The doctors have told him not to travel as obviously it'll spread, but he hasn't listened. He can't go and stay with his mum when he gets here because she's a nurse so clearly that's the wrong thing to do because she could end up passing the germs onto patients etc. So he's going to stay with Tom (his brother who works with us) and Rosemary (Tom's girlfriend who also works with us).

This means double the chances of the virus germs being brought into work! Christ, the amount of people we could all affect with it. :x

Alouette...deployer les ailes;

Alouette...plumerai les ailes.

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I wouldn't worry about getting it yourself particularly. When i was in newbury last time i came down with either a mild strain of it or something very similar (I had all the symptoms of it except the constant high temperature - i was having hot flushes though) I felt like crap for a few days but didn't particularly stop me from doing anything.

I may be wrong, but i get the impression that it's weakened since it came to the uk anyway.

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Everyone going back to college/uni :(

From a logistical point of view, it's annoying, cos the area I work is sandwiched between 2 sixth form colleges and a university, so the streets are full of annoying teenagers.

More importantly though, it is making me sad that I'm not going back to uni. Although I know I've left, there's been a part of me that truly believes it's just been the summer holidays and I'll be going back to Nottingham and my day will consist of 1 lecture and then hanging out with my friends. *lots of crying emoticons* I miss my friends and the lifestyle and I know we'll never live that close to each other or have that much free time ever again.

'Forget happiness I'm fine, I'll forget everything in time'

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I'm in this girl choir in my school that sings Danish Christmas carols. One of the main reasons I joined was that they're going to London the last weekend of November. But today we were told, that we won't be going after all, because there's another choir coming just a few days before us, so now they don't want us to come. Instead we're going to ... Skagen, the northernmost city of Denmark. Hurrah. I mean, Skagen is okay, I've been there before, but I was really looking forward to London.

Il n'y a qu'un devoir, c'est d'être heureux; il ny'a qu'une vertu, c'est la justice -Denis Diderot

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I can't keep up with the pace of life at all :( I don't feel that I can stop and collect my thoughts. I can't remember anything and I feel awful but I'm hardly able to sleep.

I really really need some time out but I just don't have any time and I can't easily get out of anything that I'm doing. Tomorrow I'm up at 7am, working all day then going to a gig in the evening. On Friday I'm going to Birmingham and staying in a tent on someone's farm for the weekend and we're going out on Friday night apparently. Then back Sunday night, off to work again for another week Monday.

I feel like I can't take any more. I've done something to my foot and it hurts when I walk, but I will be on my feet most of tomorrow. My IBS is really bad and my stomach really hurts. I can't decide if I'm hot or cold, I feel hot and shivery at the same time and my brain is too fried to work out what I'm feeling. My throat hurts and I've got a cough that seems to be getting worse by the day. I want to take things slower but feel like life will pass me by and I'll miss all the opportunities :cry:

'Forget happiness I'm fine, I'll forget everything in time'

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I can't keep up with the pace of life at all :( I don't feel that I can stop and collect my thoughts. I can't remember anything and I feel awful but I'm hardly able to sleep.

I really really need some time out but I just don't have any time and I can't easily get out of anything that I'm doing. Tomorrow I'm up at 7am, working all day then going to a gig in the evening. On Friday I'm going to Birmingham and staying in a tent on someone's farm for the weekend and we're going out on Friday night apparently. Then back Sunday night, off to work again for another week Monday.

I feel like I can't take any more. I've done something to my foot and it hurts when I walk, but I will be on my feet most of tomorrow. My IBS is really bad and my stomach really hurts. I can't decide if I'm hot or cold, I feel hot and shivery at the same time and my brain is too fried to work out what I'm feeling. My throat hurts and I've got a cough that seems to be getting worse by the day. I want to take things slower but feel like life will pass me by and I'll miss all the opportunities :cry:

That's exactly how I've been feeling ('cept for most of the last paragraph) for the past two months but you've summed it up much better than me. Get to the doctors soon if it carries on, don't leave it until two months later like I did! I went today and had two blood tests to see if I have thyroid problems, or anaemia, or a low blood count :confused:. As weird as it sounds, I kinda hope I have something so I can stop feeling like this!

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Awww Emma I think you do need to try to take life more slowly. Good that you've got some tests done though. I hope if you've got something that it's easily treatable.

I decided I couldn't keep up with things because today I was literally planning to be in 4 different places at once all day. It's not actually possible. So I am spending the weekend here rather than going to Birmingham with uni friends. I'm in the middle of a job application for a job I would actually quite like and need the time to finish it off. I've got a support bandage on my ankle so can kinda walk but really need to rest it so it stops hurting. I get a really bad cough at night which keeps me awake. Also my memory is completely gone because I am so tired.

So this weekend is a designated weekend of rest. I am going to lie on the sofa and watch TV and try to catch up with where my life is.

'Forget happiness I'm fine, I'll forget everything in time'

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me and my flatmate are on really bad terms at the moment, hes not coming back at night till extreeemely late, and leaves really early in the morning, so we can't sort things out. It's very upsetting =[ Hes trying to move out now. We were going to find a bigger flat together, but thats been blown outta the water. cue long crying session. :(

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me and my flatmate are on really bad terms at the moment, hes not coming back at night till extreeemely late, and leaves really early in the morning, so we can't sort things out. It's very upsetting =[ Hes trying to move out now. We were going to find a bigger flat together, but thats been blown outta the water. cue long crying session. :(

Aww :( It is really hard, living with someone, because if you have a falling out, you're still stuck with each other and it's difficult to get space to calm down and get a different perspective. Have you tried writing down how you feel and that you'd like to make things up with him? He must be exhausted by trying to be out all the time to avoid the issue and I think he'll want to sort things out just as much as you do. Write a note and put it under his bedroom door or something. He seems to be trying to avoid talking about it, but if you make your feelings known and give him time to think about it, it leaves it up to him to decide when he wants to talk calmly and rationally about things. Good luck, I hope you work things out.

'Forget happiness I'm fine, I'll forget everything in time'

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Aww :( It is really hard, living with someone, because if you have a falling out, you're still stuck with each other and it's difficult to get space to calm down and get a different perspective. Have you tried writing down how you feel and that you'd like to make things up with him? He must be exhausted by trying to be out all the time to avoid the issue and I think he'll want to sort things out just as much as you do. Write a note and put it under his bedroom door or something. He seems to be trying to avoid talking about it, but if you make your feelings known and give him time to think about it, it leaves it up to him to decide when he wants to talk calmly and rationally about things. Good luck, I hope you work things out.

I can't do the notes thing, cos thats what his old housemates where he used to live did. I don't want to be anything like them cos they were god awful, and I'd rather he didn't think I was like them :/ Although I will do if this goes on much longer.

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I can't do the notes thing, cos thats what his old housemates where he used to live did. I don't want to be anything like them cos they were god awful, and I'd rather he didn't think I was like them :/ Although I will do if this goes on much longer.

Ok... point taken, cos as most people here will know, I lived with some awful housemates too. So if he doesn't want to talk about it... I guess you have to accept that. Give him as much time and space as possible and then try talking to him again. If you do see him, try to talk about other stuff and hang out doing stuff you would normally do, rather than trying to talk to him about the heavy stuff straight away.

'Forget happiness I'm fine, I'll forget everything in time'

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I'm feeling so tired and exhausted all of the time. This happens to me quite a lot and I've been to the doctors before to get blood tests but they said there's nothing wrong with me. I came in from work last night and went to bed at 7 o'clock. I slept through until quarter past 6 this morning and I still felt tired. I felt a bit better once I had been up for a while but I'm exhausted again after work today and am fighting sleep sitting here on the couch.

I got my results today and nothing is wrong with me either! Bit gutted but once I get back to uni maybe I'll be okay - it's probably because I've had lots of time off and just been working instead of doing different things each day!

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Alouette...plumerai les ailes.

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Awww :( rubbish that both of you feel like that. I had those blood tests too and there was nothing wrong with me. I felt better after sleeping a lot at the weekend but I've not been sleeping much the last couple of nights and feeling bad again. I think it's just a product of the busyness of modern life and stress. I guess you just have to grab what sleep you can and try to get a good diet and some relaxation in between. I'm knackered, only knowing that the project is nearly done is keeping me going and I can have some time off soon. Really worried about how I'm going to cope with a full time job in the long run :(

I'm going to the doctor on thursday to try to find out why my foot seizes up and hurts when I walk...

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