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I fucking hate this fascination people have with needing a partner. I want to just go around my Facebook friends and punch each one in the face for subjecting me to the statuses about being single or being with "my baby" or "my boy" all the fucking time.

I kinda know where your coming from. I mostly enjoy being single however I feel like I've done everything I want to as a single guy and lately theres been this nagging feeling of wanting to be loved and wanting someone to love back. I know I don't need someone, I want someone, I dont pretend otherwise.

A lot of my friends know I'm wanting to get back into it again but I tend not to go on and on about being single, if I do its usually only if a friend is complaining about their other half annoying them and I just joke about not having to deal with that.

I totally agree with the unecessary postings on facebook etc with the stupid names, at no point did I ever refer to the ex as "my girl" or "my baby" or anythin else like that, the usual thing I refer to her now as it "droopy" :D

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Yeah I had to stop someones statuses showing as heres a recent one from her:

..i had this wall..i put it up infront of me..it was my mask..behind this wall there was things i would never tell no me..pain..hurt.. tears..i find myself telling u things i didnt expect 2..that i had not told a soul..u have broke down my wall without me noticing.. 4 that u are my angel.. i love u x x and thank u!

and her other half replied

i love you and u dont have to thank me princess i was bought into your life 4 reason just like u was bought into mine xxx ♥ ♥

Then she replied: i do have 2thank u i owe u so much.x x thank u 4ur patience in me x x x i promise 2never let u down i love u x x x x

And him again: well then u welcome princess and i promise 2 never let u down and that real talk i love you xxxxxxx

It gets sickening, plus the awful text speak makes it worse.

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hmmmm yea that would annoy me as well.

I have someone on my FB who regularly posts things about how crap her life is and how nothing is going right for her, whether its to do with her home life, work or her friends "deserting" her. Its done purely for attention and I know several people are getting sick fed up on it, 1 eventually had enough and told her to stop feeling sorry for herself. I dont think that went down too well. As well as that theres frequently lines from songs which seem to be very well disguised digs at 2 of her ex girlfriends.

If someones having a bad time then fair enough, say your having a bad time but dont pick up on every little thing thats wrong in your life and write about it every 2 hours!

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On the other hand, I have people who just post too much information on Facebook:

Ross has just deleted his porn collection. All 37gb of it..

Ross's testicles have retracted up into his body

He's also posted about his bowel movements before :/

'Forget happiness I'm fine, I'll forget everything in time'

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I went to start my first day of work placement today at a school for children with mental and physical disabilities today. Whilst every one else was able to interact and work with the children, i wasn't allowed to. The reason? I have a fractured eye socket and am therefore a health and safety risk. It's just incase I get hit in the eye. I suppose it's fair enough, but i was excited about it and now i have to sit as far away from the children as i can as to not be at risk and had to shadow my teacher (We hate each other). Going around the school to check how my classmates are getting on, watching them have fun, kinda didn't help how down I am at the moment.

Plus everyone thinks that my now ex boyfriend chris is going to come out as gay... eek.

Kitty <3

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Just had, officially the worse night of my life so far.

It started off well, me and my brother went out. It was a night to cheer me up. So how did i end up more down than i was when i went out?

Me and my brother got to Toko (the nightclub) and the first thing i did was bump into chris (literally) and he asked if i got his text, agreeing to be friends. So checked my phone and yeah i had the text. We hugged and we walked our seperate ways. Could cut the atmosphere with a knife! His female friends quite obviously didn't want me there. My brother got angry at me for agreeing to be friends. And wanted to hit him, but i stopped him as he didnt deserve that.

So at this point my brother is angry, buti want to have a good night, so I buy us drinks and try to calm my brother down. Some guy came over and started asking to dance and stuff, and i turned him down, as to not look like i was being a bitch. But i look over at the dance floor and there is chris, getting with every girl he can get with. Knowing i can see him. I chose to ignore it and carried on chatting to my brother. My brother found someone to talk to so left me on my own and i went searching for people i know (apart for chris and everyone). I found Jenna from work and danced with her, it was fun but chris decided he would carry on getting with girls, but do it so i would notice, them grinding on him and stuff. Then the DJ starts speaking. "This is to chris from Danni." At this point i am like "What the? I never said anything"... The DJ proceeds to read what i remember to be personal text messages from me to chris from the past. I am shocked and march straight over to chris asking who did that. He sniggered and said it was his friend. At this point i am fuming and decide i am going home. I sent a text to chris saying "Well that was immature, find that funny did you?" Either he replied or my apparent, but no longer, friend replied off his phone "She got a tenner out of it! It was a joke so just laugh it off!" Laugh it off. Everyone in that night club now know very personal things about me, and it was all a bet!! I sent a text to the 'friend' as i recognised it as his way of texting rather than chris's telling him to grow up. To which he replied with "Well someone cant take a joke"

The night to cheer me up has made me more down than what i was before.

Apologies for any typo's... im too angry to check for them...

Kitty <3

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:( sorry to hear it didn't go well *hug*

that Chris needs a smack in the mouth :x

I got a text this morning off him which said.. "I am sorry if i hurt you last night! I didn't send you those texts, nathan did! It is so wrong... Im sorry! I also didnt bet her to have the DJ say that. Nathan did. X" I replied with, "Thank you for the apology, but take some responsibility!"

Eugh! lol

Kitty <3

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I don't even know why I bother with having relationships.

I feel exactly the same right now. I just got dumped, because he wants to have more free time. Seriously. Makes me feel like the clingiest person ever. And I had to sit there and rationally discuss it and seem fine when a month ago he told he me loved me. It hasn't really sunken in yet. I actually have nothing much left now - no job, no relationship, and my friends are all moving away places.

'Forget happiness I'm fine, I'll forget everything in time'

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