Viv 14 Report post Posted January 14, 2011 Normally, I just let people calm down, and by the next day or something, it's all forgotten. If it's not, I'll leave it a few days, and get bored, so just apologise for anything. We've been friends since year eight, and only fallen out once.Some pins on chairs can be an extremely useful tool ;-) ** Regarding the girls kissing.... I wouldn't have an issue with this personally.... But, from your teacher's point of view, you are at school to learn, and even if it was male/female kissing, I'm inclined to think you should be asked to stop, and maybe keep it to private time. ** Not condoing any kind of violent behaviour of course. Quote Delta Machine, Depeche Mode - buy NOW !! http://youtu.be/59dZzXLPRg0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Viv 14 Report post Posted January 14, 2011 Why do you want to avoid family?Just noticed this. They're bonkers... Way, WAY over the top. I like a lot of peace / harmony around me, so, in order to achieve this, my family are really best to avoid wherever possible, that's all. Plus, they don't understand "Viv World", or how my mind actually works, so we're kind of rubbing each other up the wrong way all the time. They don't get my need for running, space outdoors, when I would like to be left alone, my thought processes, my musical tastes, etc., etc. My little cousin and his gay partner are the only family members who make sense. Plus, they know how to laugh. Quote Delta Machine, Depeche Mode - buy NOW !! http://youtu.be/59dZzXLPRg0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DC 84 Report post Posted January 14, 2011 just when i start to get it back together and feel happier, i get reminded of how bleak my situation and future looks. it's like climbing a fucking mountain then getting pushed off. no shoulder to lean on because i know nobody in a likewise predicament, it's well difficult facing it all alone. Quote on the grid. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TheEpicPlum 10 Report post Posted January 14, 2011 Some pins on chairs can be an extremely useful tool ;-) ** Regarding the girls kissing.... I wouldn't have an issue with this personally.... But, from your teacher's point of view, you are at school to learn, and even if it was male/female kissing, I'm inclined to think you should be asked to stop, and maybe keep it to private time. ** Not condoing any kind of violent behaviour of course.Good idea! The problem is, it's at lunch time. We're supposed to learn at lunch? Her girlfriend is in year 11, and they hardly ever see each other apart from lunch. Apparantly our tutor is Muslim, but still!What's made it worse, is that now that friend is talking about self-harming and stuff because of it. Then my other friend gets upset and thinks about her 'boyfriend' who lives in India, then thinks about self-harm to. Then my OTHER friend runs off with my friend / enemy and I am left alone with a load of depressives, and I'm still the wierdest out of them. :LL Quote OMASM. Radio presenters are like fruit. Matt is my kumquat and Scott is blatantly my orange. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Tom. 10 Report post Posted January 14, 2011 If he is stopping them only due to his religion, that is definitely against the law. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TheEpicPlum 10 Report post Posted January 14, 2011 Can't really stop her though. Meh. Quote OMASM. Radio presenters are like fruit. Matt is my kumquat and Scott is blatantly my orange. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cxx666 10 Report post Posted January 14, 2011 Regarding the girls kissing.... I wouldn't have an issue with this personally.... But, from your teacher's point of view, you are at school to learn, and even if it was male/female kissing, I'm inclined to think you should be asked to stop, and maybe keep it to private time.I agree. On one hand, from having friends who have been in lesbian relationships and an ex who claimed to be bisexual, I can totally understand how homophobic attitudes or perceived homophobia can hurt and upset the people concerned. On the other hand however, if I read your original post correctly your friends even hug and kiss in the classroom? Thats not on in my opinion, whether it be a hertosexual or gay/bisexual relationship. People are entitled to be in any kind of relationship they want to be, but at the same time there are those of us out there who are not comfortable with seeing couples all over eachother and if it is within an environment such as a school I don't think its unreasonable to ask them to leave that for in private Quote Not impressed with censorship Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Ratscallion 11 Report post Posted January 17, 2011 Can't really stop her though. Meh.If the teacher's stopping people doing something on the grounds of their religion, then it's probably classed as a hate crime (in this case homophobia) and is against the law.. The Head would probably be the best place to go about that... Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nik B. 10 Report post Posted January 19, 2011 I miss Mah bolding.... ='[ Quote Nik B.Born to Toads. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DC 84 Report post Posted January 20, 2011 i'm seeing things on facebook and it's bringing me back down and really hurting me. i'm going to have to log out and leave it for a while i think. Quote on the grid. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Nik B. 10 Report post Posted January 20, 2011 i'm seeing things on facebook and it's bringing me back down and really hurting me. i'm going to have to log out and leave it for a while i think.Yeah DC, that is ppossibly the worst thing about Facebook, something goes wrong and then you have a virtual record of everything. It's a disaster waiting to happen. Happened with me, and I've abandoned it now, just isn't worth it.I'm going all serious I guess. I've completely lost control of my emotions again. I haven't been to college since monday, and I just don't want to leave my flat. It's driving me insane, literally. I really honestly dunno what to do anymore.... Quote Nik B.Born to Toads. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
R94N 10 Report post Posted January 20, 2011 Yeah Facebook is horrible in that sense Sorry to hear both of your 'issues'. I'm not quite sure how to put it and I'm probably not helping. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cxx666 10 Report post Posted January 22, 2011 Been a while since I moaned so here goes....Usually people having time off work would be a good thing but I've realised why I took hardly any in the last year. Had a long weekend last weekend, again this weekend, off next friday and off the whole of the week after, and I'm already bored. My friends are either skint or working so I don't think i'll be able to do anything with them. Fortunately I have free prints to claim from a camera shop so that'll keep me busy for a few hours on monday, and yes people I mean hours, got 300 of the things to claim.A friend seems reluctant to tell me there is something goin on with another of our friends, He's been very cagey with everyone when it comes to talking about it but he's telling others a lot more than he is me. Apparently he's convinced himself I genuinely like the girl, when it actually started out as a joke which if I recall correctly he started. She's a nice enough girl, but not really my type and I only see her as a friend, but its nice to know the fact he thinks I like her wouldnt make him question getting with her. hmmmmmmmI applied for a job with a local bus company back in November to be a trainee bus driver as I'm sick of my job and the shit pay, and wanna drive for a living. Got a letter a week later saying applicants were being looked at, and I phoned yesterday and was told that they're waiting to call me in for an interview which could be another 3 or 4 weeks away Quote Not impressed with censorship Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
TheEpicPlum 10 Report post Posted January 23, 2011 I have the actual worst friends ever (apart from some weirdo named Fez who I love very muchly). It's been a week and I've spent my days in the library, etc. I have no social life, so my life now consists of glaring through eyes of resentment at evil ex friends on facebook, reading (I've read like, two books this week, and have four to finish by next week), homework (including extra homework I have made for myself) and early nights. Oh, and some Irish serial drama, named Raw. Anyway, they hate me, and it's all going crap. I ended up crying in the toilets on Thursday for nearly half an hour. Meh. Problem is, my mum has organised a birthday sleepover thing for me, and is buying pizza and etc, and lending me her chocolate fountain, and letting ALL my friends sleepover for the first time ever. So, I'm gunna have to invite them, and well... It's a few weeks away, but still.Oh, well. I LIKE hiding in the library and reading and doing homework. It's fun. Quote OMASM. Radio presenters are like fruit. Matt is my kumquat and Scott is blatantly my orange. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DC 84 Report post Posted January 26, 2011 i'm a broken person, i've now got to book a doctors apointment before i go out of my mind and do something stupid. trying to keep away from facebook but it's stuck in my mind now. not the start to 2011 i wanted. Quote on the grid. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Viv 14 Report post Posted January 26, 2011 *hugs* please try not to get too stressed :-( You're a star!! Maybe try and take a day out as well, and do what YOU want to do !! Quote Delta Machine, Depeche Mode - buy NOW !! http://youtu.be/59dZzXLPRg0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
kizmok 10 Report post Posted January 26, 2011 i'm a broken person, i've now got to book a doctors apointment before i go out of my mind and do something stupid. trying to keep away from facebook but it's stuck in my mind now. not the start to 2011 i wanted.So sorry to hear this. Glad you are going to see a doctor, I hope it helps you. Definitely get off facebook, I have friends who have had to do this for a while to help get their head straight. Hope 2011 only gets better for you. X Quote Laugh.Dance.Hoff Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DC 84 Report post Posted January 26, 2011 i'm feeling slightly better today, swimming later. that and the gym is about the only thing thats keeping me going right now. thing is with bacefook, is that if i do go on i get reminded of what should of been and it drags me back down. Quote on the grid. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Viv 14 Report post Posted January 28, 2011 Yep, I use exercise as well to combat stress. It DOES actually work. that's thing about these daft Sites like facebook... the memories from the past that you automatically are gonna pull up when you log on. Quote Delta Machine, Depeche Mode - buy NOW !! http://youtu.be/59dZzXLPRg0 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
R94N 10 Report post Posted January 28, 2011 Swimming is great exercise; cycling as well. Fun stuff. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bmstinton93 10 Report post Posted January 28, 2011 Swimming is great exercise; cycling as well. Fun stuff.So is sitting and playing Xbox Quote http://twitter.com/#!/bmstinton93http://www.facebook.com/bmstinton93 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DC 84 Report post Posted January 28, 2011 i hit the gym today. for almost a year i've been hitting the gym 2-3 times a week which dosen't include swimming, which i got to 100 lengths on wednesday. it's about the only thing that's keeping me focused, when the summer comes i'll be doing more outdoor stuff. you know i've been trying to sum it all up today, i don't think i can. but i was thinking how when people say 'there's plenty of fish in the sea', it's quite insulting. taking into account that i haven't even come across a stickleback on my journey. Quote on the grid. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cxx666 10 Report post Posted February 1, 2011 Took my car to get a pre-MOT check done last week and got told theres several things it'll fail on. I've given the guy the money to get the replacement parts, and he said he might have been able to fix it yesterday or today, but I've not been given a call about taking the car round so I'm stuck waiting as he advised me not to drive it much because theres a serious problem with the steering Its a friends brother (he's a mechanic) who is doing it, he's done work for me before and I paid for parts upfront so I don't doubt it'll be done, just fed up having a car I'm wary of driving anywhere now Quote Not impressed with censorship Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
MrDoovdeHaxorz 11 Report post Posted February 2, 2011 Once again not one thing is going right... business as f***ing usual then...Even got people harrassing me for an opinion lately, the crap just never ends. Quote Professional eater of puppy dogs, baby heads and killer of grannies... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bumble_85 11 Report post Posted February 4, 2011 Crappy week and only going to get worse. My dad died. Rubbish way to get time off work. I don't recommend it Quote There/ They're/ Their. Different words. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
