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I met this guy a while back and liked him a stupid amount from the start and didnt realise he had a girlfriend until i had already fallen. I had only just gotten out of a relationship when this happened. I have speant nearly every day and night with him for the past 2 maybe 3 weeks. He tried to break up with his girlfriend over the phone as she lives in cardiff and she had none of it and threatened to commit suiside even though she knew about me. By this point olly had already told me he loves me, i jadnt told him i how i felt. So anyway he couldnt break up with her incase she did what she said she would do.

We carried on spending time together and th other day i told him how i felt. He was really happy about it.

On saturday he went up to cardiff to break up with her and i heard nothing from him till yesterday. I sent him a text asking if he was coming backyet. I got a reply saying "No im having really good fun with my amazing beautiful girlfriend who i love more than anything" It really hurt and i cried my eyes out.

I then got a text later off him saying she sent it not him and wasnt catching his train till 2 in the morning. I told him i dont really know what to say because he obviously hadnt broken up with her as he was still there and wasnt telling me anything.

He then text me at 2 in the morning saying " I dont want either of you to get hurt and the way i see it clearest is to be around to make sure you are okay...I cant do that with her... or maybe i should back away from both of you? I dont know what i want and thats why im so confused" So i said that things cant carry on the way they are between us because its not fair on me or faye. He then decided to say "I havent been able to sleep since i met you because you are always on my mind. I think im hooked on you like a drug...Im risking so much with you" And thats the last i heard from him so... still i dont know whats going on... Some people think he is messing with my head... But i dont know. I didnt sleep at all last night through crying and thinking. I had to listen to my mum say "I told you so" as i cried.

I really dont know why i get involved with guys!

I dont even know if that makes sense... i just typed away lol

Kitty <3

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I had to listen to my mum say "I told you so" as i cried

how supportive. danni maybe you need to take a break from guys and you may get a better perspective of what type of guy to choose.

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Danni is this guy Olly your ex Dave's mate? He sounds like he doesn't have a clue what he's doing. He clearly knows he's messing you around and also messing around his girlfriend. I think for him it's "out of sight, out of mind", which makes him incapable of having a long-distance relationship. His girlfriend doesn't want to let him go easily and he hasn't even made up his mind about which of you he wants so she is able to keep hold of him. The phrase 'have your cake and eat it' comes to mind.

It's a difficult situation to be in. I think you need to be tough with him because he's been putting off making any difficult decisions and it's not fair on either you or his girlfriend. Tell him it can't go on. He needs to take the time to think things through on his own and see if he can work out his own feelings. Either he stays with his girlfriend and stops what's going on with you or completely finishes things with his girlfriend and commits to you. You're a lovely girl who doesn't deserve to be messed around again and again by boys who aren't mature enough to deal with their feelings. I agree with DC, and I know we've said this to you before, but you do need to take a break and see how things go on your own rather than going from relationship to relationship.

'Forget happiness I'm fine, I'll forget everything in time'

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OK - so the bad news is that I found out my French mark for the year, a combined total of my essay and language project mark and unfortunately it was 2 marks off a 2:1. Which basically means that after all I went through in Strasbourg last autumn all I have to show for French this year is a 2:2, albeit a high one. I am pretty gutted about this to be honest, I genuinely sweated blood over that essay, I've never stressed as much about one single piece of uni work as I did for that and I really wanted the mark to reflect the amount of effort I'd put in. Particularly as it seems as if people who did it at the last minute came out with 2:1s.

So I guess I'm now in a similar situation to the one Lucinda was in a couple of weeks ago... I'll just have to hope that the marks I get here in Seville pull up my average for the year and get it back to a 2:1. Thankfully I came out with a pretty good mark for my first exam, if I can get roughly the same kind of mark in the rest of my exams it might be enough to get me back up to a 2:1 for the year. That said I'm really not confident about my last 2 exams at all, one is an oral exam (which I'm usually crap at - oral exams that is) and with the other we haven't been given any kind of indication at all as to what might come up. And I'm so knackered from the past few weeks that I'm struggling to remember everything anyway. Oh well - nothing I can do except try my best I suppose. At least it'll all be over by Thursday afternoon and I'll be on a plane back home a week today.

Anyway, thanks for listening, I'll go and join Jono in the emo corner now... Oh, and incidentally Jono, try and keep your chin up, everyone goes through rough patches occasionally but you WILL come out the other side eventually.

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Awww that's a horrible situation to be in Helen. I was really panicky about it but things turned out ok in the end, I think I probably got the last laugh because I still managed a good solid 65 despite them condemning my dissertation to the scrap heap. Try not to let the pressure get to you because too much stress can negatively affect your performance in the remaining exams. Finding out results just before exams is only ever unhelpful, in my opinion.

Best of luck, it'll be over soon! Ultimately you've achieved loads just by surviving a year abroad where you don't know anyone and you're having to do everything in languages you're not totally familiar with :)

'Forget happiness I'm fine, I'll forget everything in time'

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Danni is this guy Olly your ex Dave's mate?

Err... Yeah... Its a bit odd because Dave's kinda with my best mate and i'm kinda with Dave's Best mate....

I have tried to speak to Olly the past couple days. Last night he decided he was gonna buggar off to a house party and the night before he got so pissed, ihe told me he was drinking to forget. I did say what i had to say but he couldnt remember what was said in the morning so was completly pointless. So gonna try again today...

I am gonna say to him (again - this time he should remember!!) He needs to make a decision. I am not gonna wait around for him, and it end up with me get hurt at the end of it... He says that the whole time he was in cardiff he thought of me... well doesnt that say something? I am so fed up of this waiting game and he has me dangling on a string. Its bad but he knows i like him enough to come running when he wants, which sucks...

He doesnt even realise how i feel evemt though i have told him several times... Clara even sent him a text yesterday saying "We need to talk about how Danni is feeling right now cos all you are thinking about is yourself" and he replied with "Eh? Whats up with Danni?" Oh my gosh.... Can he really be that dumb to not see what he is doing.....

Anyway Rant over... for now... lol

Kitty <3

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"Eh? Whats up with Danni?" Oh my gosh.... Can he really be that dumb to not see what he is doing.....

Anyway Rant over... for now... lol

Danni, blokes dumbness knows no bounds, never assume a bloke knows what you mean. I have insider info as I am one!

'The light at the end of the tunnel was the light of an oncoming train'

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I am gonna screm if we dont move on in ICT soon.... Have been sat here half hour waiting for the next piece of work whilst people cant be arsed to do anything... gotta wait for them before we can move on... AHHH

No job... Soon to be homeless... Family is breaking apart... Lost my phone... Skint... Ill... Tired... The list goes on!

Kitty <3

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I decided to end this whole farce with olly last night after he made me feel shit all evening.... he seems to think i only think about myself.... really needs to take a look at himself really. Considering i have been looking after him as he has been ill kinda says something completly different! Then he told me to grow up and stop looking for attention... which made no sense what so ever! Now thins morning i have been bombarded with sorry texts... i said "Your not sorry!" and he replied with "Believe what you want... im sorry cos im a self absorbed dick head with a lack of morals and thought for others" to which i replied with "Yes, yes you are"

Once again Clara wasnt on my side.... had pretty much enough of her too!

Kitty <3

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I have tried to speak to Olly the past couple days. Last night he decided he was gonna buggar off to a house party and the night before he got so pissed, ihe told me he was drinking to forget. I did say what i had to say but he couldnt remember what was said in the morning so was completly pointless. So gonna try again today...

I am gonna say to him (again - this time he should remember!!) He needs to make a decision. I am not gonna wait around for him, and it end up with me get hurt at the end of it... He says that the whole time he was in cardiff he thought of me... well doesnt that say something? I am so fed up of this waiting game and he has me dangling on a string.

This sounds a lot like a situation I was in a few months back that I blogged about on here. This guy really doesn't sound like he knows what he's doing and I think it's good that you've had enough and are telling him where to go. How come you're going to be homeless? Sorry to hear that.

'Forget happiness I'm fine, I'll forget everything in time'

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It's raining again today. And I mean seriously raining. The area I am living in has been placed under flood watch all day. So another day of studying because I can't even go outside and sunbathe for a while.

Wow, really? It's all sunshine here, 28 degree Celsius. Aaah.

Il n'y a qu'un devoir, c'est d'être heureux; il ny'a qu'une vertu, c'est la justice -Denis Diderot

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